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Begin Again
Greta: Are you really an A & R man? You look more like a homeless man. (Begin Again, 2013) The love of my life died on the 5th of March this year (2016). It’s still hard to look at in black … Continue reading
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On Writing My First Novel
Writing is a trip. A trip to heaven or a trip to hell is solely dependent on the mood you find yourself in at any particular moment. I’ve been cranking out words for the past week so I can start … Continue reading
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Tagged am writing, being 30, black lesbian dead, crime thriller, dreams, passion, psychological thriller, reading, starting over, thriller, writing
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What I Wish All Women Knew…And Understood
I want to speak to the person, particularly woman, who wants to carve her own way. You don’t have to identify as feminist. You don’t have to be a rebel. You don’t even have to have a type A personality … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, dreams, entrepreneur, finding your purpose, following your dreams, happiness, living, living your best life, ninja, purpose, starting over
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Ninja’s And Mirrors
A while back I wrote a post about my forgetting how to dream. It may not sound as frightful as I’d written it to be however as an entrepreneur and as a person who believes thoroughly in living my best … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, dreams, entrepreneur, finding your purpose, following your dreams, happiness, living, living your best life, mirror, ninja, purpose, starting over
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Open Doors
India Aries song SoulBird Rise begins and ends with the words: I believe in open doors. It’s taken me a year of having that album and listening to it often to understand what those words truly mean. I’ve always considered … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, communication, giving, learning, lessons, life, open doors, people, possessive, privacy, problem, self worth, selflessness, sharing, trust
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30 Life Lessons From 30 Years
I bumped into this post in September of last year. I was heading towards my Dirrty 30’s and wanted to see how far along I was on the Lesson Log. I had made it half way 🙂 Running into it … Continue reading
Posted in Dirty or Flirty Thirty?, Lessons, Tickle Me Fancy
Tagged 30, being 30, challenges, happiness, hope, lessons, life, life hacks, love, overcoming, starting over
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Transcending The Bullshit
Thirty year olds have always fascinated me. I remember how I used to eyeball them at functions as a teen while stuck in the kitchen with my cousins or friends doing chores or catering to guests. The women were a … Continue reading
