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On Writing My First Novel
Writing is a trip. A trip to heaven or a trip to hell is solely dependent on the mood you find yourself in at any particular moment. I’ve been cranking out words for the past week so I can start … Continue reading
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Tagged am writing, being 30, black lesbian dead, crime thriller, dreams, passion, psychological thriller, reading, starting over, thriller, writing
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What I Wish All Women Knew…And Understood
I want to speak to the person, particularly woman, who wants to carve her own way. You don’t have to identify as feminist. You don’t have to be a rebel. You don’t even have to have a type A personality … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, dreams, entrepreneur, finding your purpose, following your dreams, happiness, living, living your best life, ninja, purpose, starting over
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Ninja’s And Mirrors
A while back I wrote a post about my forgetting how to dream. It may not sound as frightful as I’d written it to be however as an entrepreneur and as a person who believes thoroughly in living my best … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, dreams, entrepreneur, finding your purpose, following your dreams, happiness, living, living your best life, mirror, ninja, purpose, starting over
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Open Doors
India Aries song SoulBird Rise begins and ends with the words: I believe in open doors. It’s taken me a year of having that album and listening to it often to understand what those words truly mean. I’ve always considered … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, communication, giving, learning, lessons, life, open doors, people, possessive, privacy, problem, self worth, selflessness, sharing, trust
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30 Life Lessons From 30 Years
I bumped into this post in September of last year. I was heading towards my Dirrty 30’s and wanted to see how far along I was on the Lesson Log. I had made it half way 🙂 Running into it … Continue reading
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Tagged 30, being 30, challenges, happiness, hope, lessons, life, life hacks, love, overcoming, starting over
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Transcending The Bullshit
Thirty year olds have always fascinated me. I remember how I used to eyeball them at functions as a teen while stuck in the kitchen with my cousins or friends doing chores or catering to guests. The women were a … Continue reading
Building An Empire. One Song At A Time.
Starting over. Ohhh Man! Gives me the same reaction the hyena’s in the film Lion King had on the mention of Mufasa’s name. Tiny glowing sparks shoot from my stomach and head for my spine where they explode in chilly … Continue reading
