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POWER10: Most Influential Black LBGTI 2014

It’s been a dry spell for riveting pieces however it seems 2014 refuses to exit without tossing some glitter into the sky. Must read, beautifully written. HAPPY NEW YEAR! http://www.scamtoradar.com/2014/12/10-most-influential-black-lgbtq-in-2014.html?m=1 Advertisements

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21 Varieties of Traditional African Homosexuality

An illuminating piece on homosexuality in Africa dating as far back as pre 1600’s. Puzzling. Just very puzzling. I really do not get the shame and the stigma attached to being gay in Africa in the 21st century. We were … Continue reading

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Letter To My Future Wife

Today I have no idea who you are or when you are coming. I dream of it though, and imagine how wonderful it will be. I have been extremely patient waiting for you. This is a trait I promise to … Continue reading

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Butch Women and the Finger: Sexual Compatibility vs. Being Open

I got into a friendly debate about sexual compatibility today. It was refreshing to speak at length to a person who a) wasn’t intimidated by my long responses and inquisitive nature and b) wasn’t annoyed by my┬álong responses and inquisitive … Continue reading

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2014 Aug. 21: “We want ACTION. Why must we still fight for OUR RIGHTS!?”

Heartbroken. Angry. Frustrated. Looking for answers just like everyone else. But mostly, asking myself what I can do to make a difference. Rest In Power Disebo Gift Makau! 2014 Aug. 21: “We want ACTION. Why must we still fight for … Continue reading

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Momma says…

My mom said something to me yesterday. This was in light of a topic that had suddenly illuminated my twitter timeline and initially broken my heart. You see unawares to myself, another black lesbian had been murdered in South Africa … Continue reading

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Patriarchy and Paper Cuts

My 8 year nephew flies towards me holding in the air a sheet of paper that’s flapping in the air-rush he’s creating from his speed. Its his homework and he wants me to help him with sounding out the words … Continue reading

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