Monthly Archives: September 2014

30 Life Lessons From 30 Years

I bumped into this post in September of last year. I was heading towards my Dirrty 30’s and wanted to see how far along I was on the Lesson Log. I had made it half way 🙂 Running into it … Continue reading

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21 Varieties of Traditional African Homosexuality

An illuminating piece on homosexuality in Africa dating as far back as pre 1600’s. Puzzling. Just very puzzling. I really do not get the shame and the stigma attached to being gay in Africa in the 21st century. We were … Continue reading

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Letter To My Future Wife

Today I have no idea who you are or when you are coming. I dream of it though, and imagine how wonderful it will be. I have been extremely patient waiting for you. This is a trait I promise to … Continue reading

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Transcending The Bullshit

Thirty year olds have always fascinated me. I remember how I used to eyeball them at functions as a teen while stuck in the kitchen with my cousins or friends doing chores or catering to guests.  The women were a … Continue reading

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Writing To Disolve The Mess

Can I get an Amen! http://booksbywomen.org/writing-to-dissolve-the-mess/

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Butch Women and the Finger: Sexual Compatibility vs. Being Open

I got into a friendly debate about sexual compatibility today. It was refreshing to speak at length to a person who a) wasn’t intimidated by my long responses and inquisitive nature and b) wasn’t annoyed by my long responses and inquisitive … Continue reading

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My New Year’s Gift To You – A Magic Pill

I’m so guilty! Are you? My New Year’s Gift To You – A Magic Pill.

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